Why I’m Giving up on Attempting to Always Function as Hilarious Mother
I took my kids to the children’s arts center the other week and my worry was how they will be in contact with the dirt’s in the museum. I have seen the study that children’s museums may harbor a number of the nastiest bacteria, but being have never asserted to this, I do not have enough evidence. So on this day, I was especially excited to take them out. Inside the significant museum amphitheater, a wrestling-themed anniversary party was occurring. And being the door was not closed I briefly took a peek inside.
I hardly throw this word around, but the party was wonderful. The whole, an arena was decorated to the perfection. There were wrestling rings put up, fake glittering straps hooked on the wall along with adults in Hulk Hogan costumes. There was an old-looking “wrestling game” poster with all the lucky birthday kids’ face on it. It was very exciting and to any mother that would have witnessed such a wonderful birthday party would have appreciated the works of a fellow woman.
Am unable to organize her such kind of party, and here is why; I love to have fun, but that I also have pretty incapacitating social anxiety. Being in a multitude makes me uncomfortable. Her dad meanwhile is someone who loves such type of thing. A theatre whizz in high school, he can manage any sort stage. He can throw a fantastic party to our daughter at anyplace our kid would love to or these birthday parties with Hulk Hogan costumes in a heartbeat.
While my nervousness is just a part of the problem, truth be told, there is another reason I am not capable of becoming the “enjoyable” mother. I cannot maintain the standards in arranging birthday parties that people come with Hulk hogan costumes or inside a museum. But I could try to throw the ideal birthday celebration our small city has ever seen, and also a similar one such as the one that I saw people wearing Hulk Hogan costumes. The only thing limiting me is that I will be stuck with a massive bill and expenses that will probably affect my financial balance.
Conversely, by relieving myself of this heaviness to throw a celebration that leaves people talking for months, I am taking that energy to somewhere it will be worthwhile. I am inclined to parenthood more. I am showering them with the love, memories and care that they require at this point in their own lives.
My daughter’s birthday is coming soon and I am still not certain what we will do for her. We might organize for the nozzle in the garden and let her friends splash themselves silly. Or we may organize a party similar to the museum where kids will wear Hulk Hogan costumes to make it even more unforgettable.
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